Women's Corner
October 13, 2004
I just can't get used to these new sunglasses.
You know, the kind where you look at the person and all you see is
yourself reflected in their glasses! I like to
look people in the eyes when I speak to them. Eye contact is important to me,
and the last thing I want to see when I look at someone else is
me!! In these sunglasses, you can see your mussed hair, wrinkled
shirt, and the piece of spinach in your teeth. ( Well, OK, that might be a
good thing.) But, who wants to talk to their own image in the place where
the eyes of the person you are talking to are supposed to be? It is simply
unnerving. To see ourselves in someone else's eyes can be very revealing of
our own inadequacies.
There is someone, however, who
delights and even desires to see His own image when He looks into our eyes.
That person is our Creator, God. He wants to see Himself when He looks into
the eyes of each of His children. God wants to see eyes of mercy, instead of
judgment when He looks at us (James 2:13). He longs to see in His children
eyes of compassion instead of indifference (Matthew 9:13), eyes of love
rather than selfishness (see ! Corinthians 13), and eyes that are able to see
past a tough and prickly exterior, to a vulnerable and needy soul. God
wants to see a reflection of Himself, when He looks at us. Oh, He doesn't
want to see a lot of cookie cutter people that are all exactly the same. He
has more facets to His personality and being than that, and He created His
children with the same multi-facets that are His. ( Just think of all of the
various species of fish, for example, or the various shades of red,
or blue, or green, or any other color.) There are, however, some basic
qualities and characteristics that should be common among His people. The
differences are evident in the way each unique person expresses these
qualities and characteristics.
So, how should we look? How
about loving, joyful, peaceful, patient, kind, good, gentle (calm) and self
controlled? All of these basic qualities of God,( And these are just for
starters-- you can study the Bible and find many more qualities and
characteristics of God. He details them, so we will know what we are supposed
to look like.) can be expressed quite effectively in and through a myriad of
different personalities and types of people. The Bible says that the world
will know that we are Christians by our love. Some people are really mushy,
touchy-feely types of lovers. Others are not, and still others fall
somewhere in between. The point is for our Heavenly Father to be able to look
at us and see Himself within our personality.
For, you see, God looks into
our eyes, and yes, even past our eyes into our very heart and soul. We may be
able to hide our eyes from others behind those sunglasses (reflective or
not). But, we can not hide our heart from God. He sees it all. He knows us
thoroughly. He knows if it is His reflection He is seeing in us or not. The
good news is that God knows that we are a work in progress. He sees parts of
His own image in us that are clear, and other parts that are pretty fuzzy, if
there at all. Yet, He does not give up on us. He keeps shaping that image,
and we have the promise that "He who began a good work in you will complete
it"- Philippians 1:6.
So, what type of reflection
does God see in your eyes? If you want it to be His, He will work with you on
it. All you have to do is ask, because:
"In Heaven's eyes, there are no losers
In Heaven's eyes there
is no hopeless case.
There's only people like
you, with feelings like me,
And we're amazed by the
grace we can find--In Heaven's eyes."
PS - It is so important
that you take the opportunity we all have in this great country to
VOTE on Nov. 2. Our future depends on it, and not just ours, but
people's around the world.
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